Before I became a parent I had this disillusioned idea that my kid would never watch tv, never eat fast food, never eat in the car, and would never be mismatched or in his pajamas in public (insert laughter here). I’m sure all of us parents can relate to ideas we held about parenting choices before we actually filled that role. We are quick to judge others for their choices without living the experience ourselves. And then once we’re immersed in this new title we realize it is so dang hard!

Full admission, my kid has had fast food too many times to count, he has gone to the store with me in his pajamas, he most certainly eats in the car on a regular basis and going full circle – he watches tv. This first picture is him just over one year old probably enthralled with Moana – the first thing that actually captured his attention. He’s now three and although his tastes have shifted to the likes of @breckybreck the point remains the same, he watches tv. We’ve never actively monitored how much but are somewhat aware. I’ve read articles about how screen time can alter a child’s behavior negatively, even increasing emotional outbursts and the expression of anger. I’ll admit this does somewhat sound like my fiery child at times but I also am a hot head so that could very well be a testament to, “I got it from my mama.”

All that being said, am I going to prohibit my kid from watching anything in the future? No. Why? Because I believe in enjoying things in moderation. It’s the same reason I let him have a small dessert most nights. Is that all he’s eating? Of course not. Do I still make him eat the dinner I’ve prepared for our family? Absolutely. And if he eats enough (I don’t believe in the clear your plate rule) he can enjoy a treat just like his dad and I do. Life is about finding a balance and I want him to understand that from an early age.

With this practice I see him being able to equally enjoy some down time with a show as well as going on our nightly walks through the neighborhood and to the playground. He is an active and otherwise healthy boy that expresses a zest for life and for that I am grateful.

What about you mamas? Are there parenting practices you have that you swore would never happen?

Xoxo

Gwen